The ultimate act in a marital relationships is sexual relationship. This
element of physical relationships allows a lawfully wedded couple to consummate
their relationship. This is important for their future companionship and
possible procreation.
However, today we have the opportunity, place and money to experience it
prior hand; thus many ask the question… Why Wait? The answer is ‘why not’. Well,
nowadays pre-marital sex may not be necessarily called the breaking of moral or
ethical conduct, but it definitely ruins the charm of marriage.
Here are a few reasons why celebrating celibacy till marriage and avoiding
premarital sex is a good idea.
Ruins the pleasure
Even if you indulge in pre-marital sex with your future life partner, it not
only kills the sanctity of the vow, but also ends the thrill that is associated
with marriage. Hence, it is always better to indulge in this act after the
two partners in
marriage are comfortable in each other’s zone. Waiting will only enhance the
beauty and excitement of the real act.
Confused approach
Many people, who have had sexual relations with someone else prior to tying the
knot with their life partner, feel remorse post marriage. It makes them regret
their act or worse still, they keep comparing the pre-marital flare and they
don’t enjoy the act in their current marital relationships any longer.
anxiety
In Indian society, the guilt associated with pre-marital sex is immense. Hence,
when experienced by a person before marriage especially with someone other than
your life partner, the feeling can make one insecure. Their levels of
insecurity increase and they live in constant fear and pressure of being
discovered. This erodes their self-confidence at times, leading to a disturbed
state of mind.
Probability of divorce
In India, the issue of pre-marital sex is a big one; big enough to ruin
one’s marriage. If a spouse discovers that his/her partner has had an
experience in pre-marital sex with someone else, there is a real chance of the
marriage being called off. This not just causes a terrible disturbance, but in
addition to this the feeling of having lost his/her virtue drives one crazy.
Not to mention the societal issues that crop up post discovery.
Possibility of abortion
Without proper precautions, Pre-marital sex can sometimes get out of hands and
the girl may become pregnant. In this case, if the boy or the girl fails to
accept their responsibility and head for abortion on time, then future
prospects of marriage & pregnancy can get jeopardized. Moreover, it causes
them guilt, heartache and above all loss of mental peace.
Acquired infection
Acquiring infection or sexually transmitted diseases or HIV is often heard from
unprotected sex. The possibility becomes all the more high in pre-marital sex
cases. If the girl or boy acquires any such disease through pre-marital sex,
then both their chances of getting married and longevity will diminish
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