It is safe to say that the simple answer to this question is no. All people are different, relationships in families, too, all different, however, and the attitude to change at everyone. One considers a betrayal thrown in passing glance at another woman. Another admits thoughts intimate relationship of husband with another woman, but only if he came home and loved her alone. But most of all change, of course, it is believed, if the husband entered into a close, intimate relationship with another woman. How to behave, if the husband cheating on you?
Your behavior largely depends on what type you belong to: those women who live feelings, passions, or to those who live by reason. But in any case, no matter how the body, the heart or the mind, you would not have taken the decision, you can prevent a very common error.
Women who live the feelings that love their husbands sincerely and faithfully accept the news of her husband's infidelity, as a tragedy, as a betrayal of him. The world is crumbling, the family disappears, nothing remains but the pain and resentment. More often than not, these women received irrefutable proof her husband's infidelity, decided on a genuine conversation with him. But such talk is accompanied by tears, insulting words, hand-wringing and complete destruction of the moral man. What's next? An oath and her husband assurances that this will not happen again and silent forgiveness of his wife. Or divorce and broken destiny forever loving woman
Women, who in addition to a feeling of complete and even emotions, often throwing a fit husband scandals smashing crockery and humiliating insults. This kind of discharge, way to get rid of the pain, anger, resentment. In this case, it often happens that the wife of her husband to collect the suitcase and puts it over the threshold. Wife drowns sorrow strong drink in a small circle of girlfriends, continuing to find fault with her husband. As a result, a divorce and feelings of anger for many years, or violent reconciliation and subsequent regular reminders of his wife what had happened and about what her husband is a scoundrel.
If a woman is rational and feelings she did not stand in the foreground, it is sure to ponder the situation in which there was. Unlikely to immediately let him know her husband about her awareness, try to understand yourself. In the end, after weighing all the pros and cons, it is either divorced, taking her husband all that she needed, and subsequently never letting him into his new life. Or a woman did not even tell her husband that in the course of his infidelity, but to do everything to prevent it in the future. Will she be happy with your informed decision? This is no guarantee.
How to behave properly if the husband has changed? I think that it is best to try to combine into a single their feelings, emotions and mind, and to find the right solution. The first and important tip: as if you did not lock emotions, do not break off the shoulder. Remember, my husband - it is also a man, and he has weaknesses and it has the right to fail. Remember the lessons of school biology: males never been monogamous males in the blood desire to possess a variety of women. Of course, this does not justify it, but this should set you on rationality. Look at the statistics: 97% of men cheat on their wives. Yes, it happened to you. It hurt, hurt, insulting! But it is not fatal! If the husband over the years has been for you a good friend, support, gentle lover, provided you, and if it is close and dear to you, are you ready to lose it all because of infidelity? The second piece of advice: try to understand what the reasons might encourage her husband to change. Maybe your intimate relationships have become commonplace and monotonous, and he wanted something new, spicy? Maybe you have a relationship in the case of cooling, you have grown apart, and my husband was looking for understanding and support on the side? Can you domesticate, stopped to look after themselves, and her husband wanted to feel myself again next to a beautiful and well-groomed woman? Or maybe you originally had different interests, and he suddenly found sexual Minded? Reasons set. More often than not infidelity occur randomly, as a continuation of light flirting. But there is always a reason. Find the cause of your husband's infidelity. And take appropriate decisions. Or change something in their appearance and behavior. Ask the affairs of her husband, hearken to his problems, get support for it. Make novelty flavor to your intimate relationships, refresh them, choosing a new location, offering role-playing and deciding on what used to be for you banned.
If you now think, how to behave, if the husband has changed and thus come to the conclusion that by and large you do not care what her husband for you are no longer intimate and non-native people and that you are tired of all relations with him, then it is not in her husband's infidelity. Then it is necessary to think about your relationship with your husband.
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