12 Humans Enemies All Time (urdu)

Dil ko kamzor karne wale asbaab ki janib say zayada say zayada muhtaat rehne ki zaroorat hai yahaan un asbaab ka mukhtaser zikar kia jata hai,

1- Fikar

Dil ko sab say zayada kamzor karne wali bala fikar hai.kai tarah ka fikar insan apne aap ko laga leta hai.Baaz musibat mein guzray howe aoqaat ko yaad kar ke ghamgin aor khaof zada rehte hain is tarah ke ghamgin aor preshan mere brothers and sisters ko sochna chahye ke pahle jo ho chuka woh ho chuka fikar karne say ab kia hasil?

 

Baaz log apne jisam say mutaaliq hi fikar karte rehte hain keh hamara jisam dubla patla kion hai aor baaz log apne motapa say preshan hote hain aor baaz kisi ki mohabbat mein soch soch kar dukhi ban jate hain.Ye tamaam tafakkuraat  bay bunyad aor jawani ke dushman hain.

 2-Mayoosi Aor Na Ummeedi

Is say bhi dil par bahut bura asar parta hai agar koi kaam hamari khawahish ke mubatiq nahin hota to hamara mayoos ho jana aor himmat haar baithna koi jawanmardi nahin,bajae mayoos aor na ummeed hone ke hamein apni himmat say kaam letay howe usay sar anjam denay keleye dobara koshish karni chahye.

 3-Ghussa

  Khoon ke andar jitna zaher ghussa say paida hota hai shayed hi kisi aor cheez say hota ho.khoon na serf zahreela banta hai balke bahut zayada ghussa ki waja say khoon jal jata hai.is leye ghussa say har halat mein bachna chahye.

 4-Nafrat 

  Ik aadmi ke khayalat ham say nahin milte ya ik admi ki aadaat aor aor aamaal hamein pasand na hoon to ham us say nafrat karte hain, is tarah us aadmi ka to kuch nahin begarta balkeh us aadmi ko dekh kar khud hamein waqti preshani ka samna karna parta hai,hamein chahye ke us ki aslah karein,nafrat karne say dil par bhi bura asar parta hai.

 5-Chughli Aor Hasad 

Doosroon ki buraiyan karte rehne say aor ek ki baat doosre ke samne karne say bhi dil mein kamzori aa jati hai kion ke us insan ko ye khaof hota hai ke jis ki main burai kar raha hoon ya chughli kar raha hoon kahein us ko pata na chal jae keh main ne us ki burai ya chughli ki yahi khaof us insan keleye dil ki kamzori ka sabab banta hai.Doosroon ki izzat aor maal o daolat par hasad karna bhi dil ko kamzor kar deta hai.

 6-Aaib Joi

    Doosroon ke aaib aor gunah talash karte rehna aor un ki buraion par nazar rakhna bhi dil ko kamzor kar deta hai kion keh aisa insan har waqt doosroon ke gunah aor aaib talash karne ki koshish mein preshan rehta hai aor yahi preshani us ki dil ki kamzori ka sabab banti hai.

 7-Khud Gharzi

jo shakhs apni gharz ko he samne rakhta hai aor apne nafa keleye doosroon ka nuqsaan karne say nahin rukta ,us ka dil bhi mazboot nahin rah sakta kion ke us ko har waqt apna mafaad hi hasil karne ki fikar rehti hai yahi fikar aor preshani us ke dil ko kamzor karti hai.

 8-Khayalat Ki Napaaki

Bure khayalat dil ko mareez bana detay hain kion keh insan un khayalat ki takmeel keleye khofzada hota hai keh kahin us ki haqeeqat doosroon ko pata na chal jae aor jab wo burai ka erada karta hai to bhi us ko yahi khaof  hota hai keh main kisi bari musibat mein phans na jaoon yahi khaof us ke dil ko kamzor karta hai.is leye hamein chahye keh ham apne khayalat ko burai say paak rakhein.

 9-Dhoka Faraib

   Doosroon say dhoka karne wale insan ka dil hamesha kaanpta rehta hai keh kahein us ka dhoka aor faraib logoon par zahir na ho jae. ye khaof us ko hamesha preshan rakhta hai aor dil ko kamzor karta hai.

 10-Nafs Ki Ghulami

   Dil ko tabah karne wali aadaat mein nafs ki ghulami numbar ek hai. nafs e ammara ka ghulam hamesha preshan rehta hai.woh kai tarah say apne dil par zarbein  lagata hai. apni sharam gaah ko ghalat istemaal (use) karta hai apni bad kardari ke zahir hone ke kaof  aor badnami waghaira ke khaof say us ka dil preshan rehta hai aor ye khaof us ke dil ko kamzor kar deta hai.

 11-Jald Baazi

Fikar aor tashweesh ye doonoon insan ki zindagi aor sehat ke dushman hain.baaz aoqaat ye insaan ki jald baazi ka natija (result) hote hain. jald baaz aadmi jald baazi karte waqt apne dil par kaafi bojh dalta hai pher woh jaldi mein bari ghaltiyan kar jata hai jis ki waja say us ko nadamat hoti hai jis say us ke dil ko bahut sadma hota hai aor ye sadma us ke dil ko kamzor karta hai.

 12-Daolat Ki Hiwas

Jab insan jaiz aor najaiz, munasib aor na munasib mein koi tameez nahi karta to woh apne zameer ka khoon kar ke jaisay bhi ho apni matlooba cheez ko hasil karne ki dhun mein laga rehta hai. is say dil mein naqahat paida ho jati hai. numbar ek to daolat hasil karne mein woh apne jisam aor demagh par zaroorat say zayada bojh dalta hai pher kamae howe maal ko mahfooz rakhne mein demagh sozi katrta hai pher nuqsaan hone ki soorat mein apna ropia paisa ke nuqsaan ho jane ki soorat mein un ke dil par aisi zarab lagti hai ke baaz aoqaat to Heart Attack ho jata hai. is leye ropia paisa kamane ke khayal ko wabaal e jaan nahin bana chahye.apne akhrajaat ko kam karna chahye aor saada zindagi basar karni chahye.